SECRETS AND LIES................
SECRETS AND LIES Keeping secrets from your partner is a deliberate intent to keep information hidden. This choice is usually because we fear the impact on yourself or other informations we may have. What often underlies secrecy is a fear of judgement and reprisals. A lie is a deliberate act of deceiving another person by hiding the truth or trying to manufacture an untruth. Secrets and Lies jeopardizes trust in our relationships and can cause irreparable damages in the following ways; Ø Trust and Vulnerability will be blocked. Ø Need to constantly cover up and watch your back leads to tension. Ø Easier to blame a partner than recognize your choice in maintaining secrecy. Ø It jeopardizes sexual intimacy. Being honest in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to share every single detail all the time. Knowing what to share and what not to share is an important communication skill in a relati...