HEALING
HEALING ..... As a lady, the first thing to put in place before you get married is to HEAL . Heal completely from your past. Heal from the dysfunctionality of your background. Heal from your EX . The journey of HEALING is between you and God , not between you and your husband. There are wounds that only God can help you mend. The danger of not healing before you say I DO is that you begin to bleed on the one who did not injure you. One of the signs that you need healing is that you overreact. Overreacting to things is a sign that you are seeing someone else in your spouse. Sometimes you are not responding to the person he reminds you of. You are seeing your DAD in him, you are seeing your EX in him, you are seeing the person who tried to rape you in him and you are seeing the person who shattered you...