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FORGIVENESS

  Hey Guys, It’s been a while here. How have you all been? Let me just share something with you. FORGIVENESS …….Forgiveness involves willfully putting aside feelings of resentment toward someone who has committed a wrong, been unfair or hurtful, or otherwise harmed you in some way. Forgiveness is not merely accepting what happened or ceasing to be angry. Rather, it involves a voluntary transformation of your feelings, attitudes, and behavior, so that you are no longer dominated by resentment and can express compassion, generosity, or the like toward the person who wronged you. Forgiveness is the act of intentionally letting go of anger and resentment towards someone who has harmed you. It can help you feel more peaceful and in control of your life, and can lead to feelings of compassion and empathy for the person who hurt you. Forgiveness is different from forgetting or excusing the harm that was done, and it doesn't necessarily mean making up with the person who caused it. T...

Social Media & Relationships: The BAD & The UGLY

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There are many positives in negatives with the use of social media. I see that it gives us the ability to connect with each other from far away with things like Skype, Snap chat, Facebook and many more. On the other hand, I see the way it puts pressure on our relationships to be perfect, increases unfaithfulness and increases jealousy. With things like “relationship goals," “friendship goals” and “family goals,” there is a sense of failure if your relationships aren’t “picture perfect."      First, I want to talk about jealousy. It is part of every type of relationship and to a certain extent, is normal. But now, there seems to be an influx of what we get jealous of. Who she has on her Snapchat best friends, who is the girl that tweeted your boyfriend, who commented on her Instagram picture, and so on. This creates such a strain on relationships that they usually are more likely to fail. Without the use of social media, I believe that relationships w...