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MANAGING RELATIONSHIP CRISIS Relationships are at the core of the most important things we do, not only as leaders but also as humans. Relationships are how we form partnerships and families and organizations and communities. All relationships--personal and professional--experience ups and downs. There are great times when you can almost read each other's minds, followed by challenging periods when you seem to be miles apart. These variations happen even in healthy relationships too. But if things seem to be more down than up when you look at an important relationship in your life--whether it's a colleague or a friend, a key employee or a business partner--you may start to wonder if something more serious is going on. But let’s talk more about a Personal Relationship with your partner. Here are some symptoms that should cause you worried, together with the preventive measures that can help you keep your relationships healthy: 1. Resentment. Resentment grows when some...

  P art of the pleasure of reading a novel lies in not knowing how it will wrap up until we get to the last page. Then reminisce on how the characters might have lived differently, had they known what the end would be. . .      But real life has an urgency, so different from fiction and at the end, it cannot be changed. Now, if you're faced with the opportunity to change just one thing about your life, would you oblige? And if you did, would that change make your life better? Or that change break your heart? It's always funny when people say "had it been Adam and Eve never ate that forbidden fruit, we would have lived a better life, no sin, no death, etc". It behooves me if it does really matter? Do you ever wonder, if we make moments in our lives or the moments in our lives makes us? People are going to disappoint you, you should expect that. But what if you wake up one day and realize you are the disappointment? Changing just o...

IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP NORMAL?       Everyone wants to be in a romantic relationship, and everyone has an idea in their head of what the perfect relationship should be. However, most of the time, we end up in relationships that never resemble what we thought we would have, and we start to wonder whether or not this is okay. Usually, the answer surfaces when we compare our relationship to other people’s and try to figure out if ours is better, worse or the same. Of course, we can never make this determination because one never knows what goes on behind closed doors and what is actually normal. If you are wondering if your relationship is normal, here are some pointers so you can figure that out..... 1. Relationships are difficult, no matter what. If someone tells you otherwise, they are lying, or they aren’t in a relationship. 2. Your relationship is normal as long as it works for you and your partner. Talk to your significant other about what “ normal ” means to...

We all have one disease we dread the most. Some hate cancer, others can't stand the pain and aches of malaria, more dread the picture while a good number of people cry over the pimple on their face. As for me, I hate the sneaky cold; one second, it's the sneezes, though I refuse to be bothered, and next minute, my head aches, then the constant coughing which has me holding it with both hands so much so  it doesn't crack open. Meanwhile, my nose itches and runs like a little girl on a sugar high... horrible! So, here I am alone and miserable, fighting for my nose and waiting for my friend to bring the drugs that I may consume them like a hungry lion waiting for a prey or wait… like a groom waiting for his beautiful bride. All of a sudden, my rebellious mind takes a stroll on the path of things I try as much as possible not to think about. He suddenly asked me "what would you give your bride?" I was shocked "Wow!, How did we get here?" I asked....

WHY DO MARRIAGES FAIL?       HI Guys……..Guess it’s been a while I posted on my blog. My sincere apologies. I am working on something which I know you guys would really love. Now let’s talk……….       Marriage is a divine institution created by God. It is the joining or coming together of a man and a woman to become one. Every marriage is not a bed of roses. Some lived happily ever after and some crashes along the way.        Let’s try and look at some of the reasons why some marriages fail. It is fine to list some reasons, like; Lack of Trust, Infidelity, Lack of tolerance, Miscommunication Lack of Respect, Financial Incapability, Immaturity, etc. it is so good to say all these things, but have we gone to the foundation? Here, we are going to talk about some foundational problems why some marriages fail. 1.        LACK OF SELF-LOVE : Love your life so much as if it mean...