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DEEPER INTO DREAMS

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We all have one disease we dread the most. Some hate cancer, others can't stand the pain and aches of malaria, more dread the picture while a good number of people cry over the pimple on their face. As for me, I hate the sneaky cold; one second, it's the sneezes, though I refuse to be bothered, and next minute, my head aches, then the constant coughing which has me holding it with both hands so much so  it doesn't crack open. Meanwhile, my nose itches and runs like a little girl on a sugar high... horrible! So, here I am alone and miserable, fighting for my nose and waiting for my friend to bring the drugs that I may consume them like a hungry lion waiting for a prey or wait… like a groom waiting for his beautiful bride. All of a sudden, my rebellious mind takes a stroll on the path of things I try as much as possible not to think about. He suddenly asked me "what would you give your bride?" I was shocked "Wow!, How did we get here?" I asked....

WHY DO MARRIAGES FAIL?

WHY DO MARRIAGES FAIL?       HI Guys……..Guess it’s been a while I posted on my blog. My sincere apologies. I am working on something which I know you guys would really love. Now let’s talk……….       Marriage is a divine institution created by God. It is the joining or coming together of a man and a woman to become one. Every marriage is not a bed of roses. Some lived happily ever after and some crashes along the way.        Let’s try and look at some of the reasons why some marriages fail. It is fine to list some reasons, like; Lack of Trust, Infidelity, Lack of tolerance, Miscommunication Lack of Respect, Financial Incapability, Immaturity, etc. it is so good to say all these things, but have we gone to the foundation? Here, we are going to talk about some foundational problems why some marriages fail. 1.        LACK OF SELF-LOVE : Love your life so much as if it mean...

AM I A FAILURE?

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  D oes feelings of inadequacy prevent you from taking new challenges? Does the well-meaning comments of those you respect sometimes under-mine your confidence? Does discouragement of past  blunders hold you back from trying again? If so, how can you come to terms with your failures (real   or perceived)?       You have everything to gain by finding an answer to the last question because sooner or  later, everybody fails at something. But people who can deal with failure are resilient. That  means they can put their mistakes in perspective, get up and try again. And next time, they  are more likely to succeed! So let’s see how you can cope with three challenges, namely;     1.  Potential Failure     2.  Perceived Failure       3.  Actual Failure 1)    POTENTIAL FAILURE (WHAT COULD HAPPEN)...