FOOTSTEPS


FOOTSTEPS
    God grant me patience to accept the things I cannot change. To realize sometimes it’s going to change. I need a smile to help me through the pain. Sometimes in life, I wish I could escape from reality, when things are too real. I wish I could find a way not to feel. I want to be in rage, but something inside of me says “Please be still”.
    You have people in this world who really needs you. And it’s a few that has come and said they will never leave you. Some of them had to go a day, it couldn’t have pleased you. They couldn’t go to places life was going to lead you. There is going to be some days you are going to wish that you could throw it away. It is okay when you are going through to say that you are afraid. So cliché to say that it’s going to be some better days. But it won’t always be this way…so don’t lose FAITH.
   Since we are been honest, loses always come with trauma. Trying not to lose my mind, but I think I’m almost lost. Because I don’t have clue to what I’m going to do. But I know some blessings will come.
    I need some help to show these guys what is going to take to be a man. I also need some help to show these girls what is going take to be a woman. By the way, I have people asking me questions of what is going on in their lives……that’s OK though, because that’s the work of a psychologist...*smiles*. At the same time I’m through the pain of a lady who also feels abandoned, so she abandoned me. Thought she knew that loving me was not a holiday. Too many choices, too many rules. The question is “HOW DO I FIND MYSELF, WHEN I’M LOSING YOU?” But thank God for life, because we have the power to say what’s wrong and what’s right.
    You should know just in case, when you walk away, can people follow your footsteps? Can people always make right references to the path you chose? Will your footsteps be washed away or will it make impacts in different lives?
    Where are your footsteps leading to?..............................................................

Thank you for sparing your time reading this beautiful piece. I am truly Honored. Hope to get more feed-backs from you.

MELVIN

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